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Forgiveness, Accountability & Examples

Forgiveness, Accountability & Examples

Hello World,

Back when I offended the dumbass on Facebook and he showed up at my house to murder me, I was clear that I was going to hold him accountable.  I wanted to make sure that he was not only held accountable, but also made an example out of.  I told the DA that under no circumstances that I wanted him to have the option to plea out.  Since they had enough to arrest him that night I was able to see his mugshot and commit it to memory (along with his goofy looking face from his facebook profile) because mugshots are a matter of public record. However, because he is entitled to a fair trial, they took down anything that I could research, and I told the world, not to talk to me about the case until it is over, thus placing myself in a bubble away from my real family and friends.

At the time of this, I was already in the process of undergoing my EMDR therapy and I knew his lawyers would attack my competency. Part of the agreement I made with the police, DA, and judge was that I would independently identify him with out the help of others and recite everything from memory.  This meant they could only hold him for so long at the time but I was able to successfully ID the guy last Christmas, since then he has been held on a million dollar bond.  His coconspirator was smart enough to take a plea deal but must testify against him too. I made it clear though, no plea deal for him, I want to look him in the eye and give my testimony, I am calling it now, he will get pissed in court and try to attack me in the courtroom.  If he does it will make me laugh at him on the record, LOL.

The same night jack ass showed up, I went live on a stream and acted like "Coach RAGE" to include defecating myself on camera.  I did this because I knew my abusers would see me acting '"inappropriately" rather than understand I was making content that is protected by the 1st amendment in multiple ways. I did this because I wanted to draw them out, and see if any of them would do the right thing, if any of them would apologize, acknowledge what they did, or even treat me like a human being.  Also during my entire life when I am inappropriate in front of them and their friends, they get embarrassed and frustrated because at that point they know Mikey is present and they have no ability to manipulate me without me exposing them in front of their friends.

My brother Chuck, who covered up his involvement his entire life by lying about me to people and chose to be a BIGOT after I had told him he was forgiven.  He also taught his daughter Kaydance to be a bigot too, she is going to college to be a dance instructor and sports medicine, and she treats people with disabilities like shit, I wouldn't want her around my kids, especially if they have disabilities.  My sister Angela was legit gaslit by Chuck, Bill & Rita, but eventually came around once Bill confirmed I was telling the truth my entire life.  However she felt it would be appropriate to teach her teenage daughters that it is acceptable to call people with disabilities names, in my case I was referred to as the "Crazy Retard" by them. 

Rita did her best to cover her ass, she used to make Chuck & Bill be her enforcer.  They even went as far to tell my friends as a young child up into high school to call me a "big baby" and publicly humiliate me if I had an episode rather than show compassion. Let's just say they made it easy for me to get use to being lonely because anyone they "poisoned" about me, I cut ties with, I did keep a few relationships up for appearances, a few let me confide in them and they believed me, but a lot refused to believe me and went along with the "big baby" to include football coaches I worked with as an adult, they did a lot of poisoning to people I tried to have relationships with.

One of the tactics I used to increase pressure and draw out Rita's true colors was I contacted all of her friends on facebook and sent them the same message.  It essentially said she tried to murder me and has spent her life abusing me, trying to gaslight me, and lied to all of her friends and MY FAMILY about me.  She sent Chuck & Bill to try and manipulate me, they said I would be locked up and blah blah blah for sending messages on facebook.  My response is that it was up to each person I contacted to tell me they don't want me to contact them, or to block me and that it wasn't their place to speak for anyone but themselves.  The looks on their faces when they realized how fucked they were was priceless, but even then I told Chuck that he was forgiven, pigheaded, but forgiven and he chose to not believe me, and spread more lies about me to those in his world.  

A couple of weeks ago I reported Angela to a school principal for the copious amounts of marijuana she smokes in her home around her kids, it is illegal here, and in my opinion inappropriate to expose kids to.  Since Chuck made his decision to be a bigot and walk away from me even though I told him we were cool, I decided to hold him accountable because he keeps his marijuana in places where his wife's grandkids can reach it, he lies on the A.T.F. form about his drug use, and he stores some of his marijuana with his firearms.  I might have been over the line for my sister, but no one else in that fucked up family looks out for those girls.  As far as Chuck, one night at a dinner at his house, he was going to call the police on me if I hugged him, I said i understood, and then he insulted and humiliated me in front of his guests, if he was willing to do that, then he must be okay with being held accountable too.  They all made their choices and I made mine.

I linked them to this because the internet has been ruled a public domain.  I am not lying about them and not slandering them, I am telling the truth and they know it.  If they want to exist in any public domain that I use, I will shine a light on who they are so they can go hide.  Everyone but Bill deserves to be ashamed of who they are, all disgusting human beings.  When I decided to hold everyone accountable I decided i would give them one last chance to do the right thing, like I said Bill was the only one.

During my recovery Bill and I started going out to weekly lunches, and this was the most and best time I had ever spent with my father. We were able to bond over our shared experiences in the service.  When it became apparent to him that I remembered everything from my childhood, he tried doing the right thing.  He thinks he failed me, he didn't. I forgave everyone over and over, every time they fucked up with me, I forgave them, it is what you are supposed to do, Bill didn't fail me, he helped me a lot during my therapy the past few years and tried to tell Rita that she needed to do the right thing but she was so fucking stupid and ignorant that she rejected her husband and tried to get him to be her enforcer once more, he told her no.  I forgave him, it is why he isn't tagged.  If any of them don't like it, too fucking bad, sue me, you will lose, or just hide your presence in public spaces.  Everyone tagged is also 18 or older, so no minors are being put on blast.

I have always been a forgiving person, when my wife (at the time she was my girlfriend) cheated on me, I forgave her and we worked through it together.  I tried doing the same for these fucking morons one last time but they were all too ignorant to do the right thing.  This was never about revenge, it was about forgiveness, advocating, and accountability.  Just like I am making an example out of the jackass who showed up, I am going to be making examples out of abusers and this includes those who abused me, there isn't a public place abusers can hide in, if I see them when I am out, I will draw as much attention as I can on them.

Keep in mind I told Rita that if she wanted forgiveness for the injuries I sustained because of her, it would cost $200,000, to date I have received $20,000.  I also said if she wanted her family in the same room ever again she will publicly acknowledge what she did, her response was "I am not capable of that."  If Chuck wants forgiveness for being a bigot, it will cost him $10,000, his daughter will be another $10,000.  Angela is too poor, she has a shitty life as it is, but teaching your kids to treat people like that, just wrong.  Chuck and Angela will also have to improve their character and learn to treat EVERYONE with respect at all times if they ever want to have a relationship with me.  Bill is forgiven.   

The really funny thing is that when I testify at the trial, there is going to be a reporter there.  She has been involved since day one of all of this documenting everything, and I promised her she would be my first interview.  My spotlight is only going to get brighter and calling out scum who mistreats people with disabilities.  The pressure and shame my abusers feel now is only going to get more intense.

At the trial, I will have to explain a lot, and we will be submitting the statement Chuck made to the police in May as evidence that I told the truth about Rita.  The defense attorney isn't going to be able to attack my competency in any way at all.  I even went as far as to make sure my wife flies out of town anytime I blog about this, discuss stuff with the police, or identified the jackass, so we can prove that she wasn't here to help me.  All of my text messages with my real family and friends will show I have tried to reach out to talk about this, and their responses were to play dumb, I can prove I barely leave my home, yet alone been able to hang out with any of them in.  Plus I can feel they all want to see this jackass held accountable and aren't going to do anything inappropriate to jeopardize the case. 

I am going to offer Rita forgiveness one more time, then I will never contact her again.  I know she hates me and doesn't love me, so it won't be doing it for me, she'll be doing it for her husband and other two children, and herself too, she can still salvage how she looks in this and have a better outcome than not doing the right thing.  I am going to email her that this is the last time I communicate with her, that I am afraid she will try to take the cowards way out, I am afraid she will try to hurt Bill, when the trial gets here in April, I can't stop what society does or how they view her, I can only say I tried offering her yet another opportunity to do the right thing. After I send this email I will never contact her again, attend services, nothing, if she doesn't own what she did and make things right.  I do remember telling the world that you all should decide how to hold her accountable because she is my mom and the most I could do is file a police report, I am still expecting you to hold her accountable if she doesn't settle with me and admit what she did.

Thank you,

Mikey

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