Hello World,
Another part of this is that I did give a list of people in my wife's life that would be able to communicate with her too without telling me what they talk about. Her best friend is a fancy big shot executive lawyer. I don't know what if anything her people were told, but every time I have stood here and done this, she was out of town. Either her friend believes me, or that's just another odd coincidence.
I wanted her out of the house, because I do know the impact of what this does to people. You remember the first person that got mad at me for posting their insults and making an ad out of it? He really did show up at my home with the intention of harming me. He really was arrested, I don't know where that stands legally, like I said, people let me be and took care of what needed to be done to give me the space to heal.
One of my triggers to wake me up at Christmas were sirens. That first night when he showed up the police were waiting and that siren let me know it was safe that night for me to continue. I didn't have to worry about protecting myself in such a vulnerable state because I knew the police had my back. They played sirens with in range of my house at approximately the same time that happened so I could use it for a trigger. I know what I did was a bit extreme to some, but to me thats standing up to a bully.
I don't know what my wife does with her friend while I do this, but I do ask her to watch, and she has always been free to leave whenever she needs, and if she is to scared of me and doesn't want to comeback home after I keep doing this, then she will go to her friends house, but she will be back. She has been so incredibly supportive. Every time I did this she went on a trip (flight records could prove this), I did that to protect the ones I love. Christmas was the first time she watched me do this in person and she sees what this does to me. She was shocked but I told her then and maybe the body cameras got some of it, that all of this was real, and a ruse to give my abuser one more chance.
This is me on my own tour of D.C, standing in front of the Marine Corps Commandant's Home. Once everyone is healed and ready, I have a trip planned for D.C., for myself, Brother, Father, and my Sister if she wants to come.
Thank you,
Mikey